中美父母对子女婚姻

㈠ 外国与中国父母如何对待孩子的恋爱与婚姻问题

外国人在感情上比较自由，父母通常觉得孩子快乐就好，所以不会太过于注意另一方的家庭环境。

㈡ 你觉得父母对子女婚姻观的影响有多大

如果有抄十分，那么可以占据到七分左右。自己的初恋女朋友就是来自一个从小离异的家庭，她的婚姻观真的被自己父母的那一段失败的感情影响的太深太深了，不止一次她在我的面前哭诉希望可以看到父母和自己坐在一张桌子上吃饭。同时她对于感情真的太过于敏感，害怕自己以后的婚姻会失败的程度已经到了不知道什么是爱了。自己也是非常的努力希望她可以用一个积极的态度去面对这件事情，但是收效甚微。

㈢ 在欧美国家父母会干涉子女的婚姻吗

还是要看具体是什么家庭,据我所知的几个家庭都是会干涉的,父母肯定都要为儿女着想,当然也有其他极端的案例不会管的

㈣ 为什么中国的父母总想把子女的婚姻当成是自己的事一样

爱情是个人的事

但婚姻绝对不是，那是两个家族的事，你连这都不懂，是不是你太小了

谁说国外不是两个家族事了，你有多了解国外呢？门当户对在哪里都是行得通的！英国王子可能娶一个刷碗的女工吗？英国王室会同意吗？自由都是相对的，国外的人也不是说结婚就结婚吧。人家成年人不需要父母给找工作、不需要父母出钱买房、生了孩子不需要父母给带……你怎么不比比这些

哈哈，你说的简单，不要房子不要他们管，别那么幼稚了，现在你觉得你们的爱很伟大，等残酷的现实磨去了它美丽的光环，你就知道什么叫生活了！！！

我是不是胡说，你现在没有资格质疑！“不听老人言吃亏在眼前”这句话不是我编的吧，几千年大家都承认的东西，就凭你想推翻，你有这个能力吗？难道你爸爸妈妈见不得你好，想害你？？最后送你两个字：幼稚！你根本不知道生活是怎么一回事

㈤ 为什么中国的父母，总是喜欢干涉子女的婚姻

出发点为子女好，一直讲究门当户对

㈥ 在欧美国家父母会干涉子女婚姻吗

以我的理解，人性是相通的

父母都是希望儿女好，听说很多西洋人也啃老。。。

㈦ 中美婚姻对比，英文的，一个段落即可，条理清晰

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谈到中外婚姻观念的差异时他说：我以为中国人有一个错觉，总以为西方人的性爱像吃早饭一样随便，事实上不是这样。我倒觉得中国人的性爱观念比外国人要开放。比如在酒吧，常常可以看到中国男人和他的情人在一起。我知道有些中国男人养着小老婆，这在西方是无法接受的。在我的观念中，婚姻是忠诚，是一种严肃的契约，男女双方必须公平。你如果决定跟一个女人度过你的余生，你就不应在外面找其他的女人，否则，就不公平。当然，在有些婚姻关系中男女双方都各有情人，谁也不干涉谁的生活，我觉得这种婚姻关系是不健康的。

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也许，婚前西方人的生活更趋向于人的本性。比如，你成年了，十七八岁，你如果有情感或性的要求，就可以得到满足。随着人们的生活压力越来越大，人的内心世界也变得越来越孤独，人的情感、本能需要也就越来越具体。你不可能很容易地找到理想的爱人，那么怎么办呢？只好更关注自己本身的需要，身体的需要，这种需要有时可能是短暂的，一小时，一个星期或一个月。在西方70年代有性解放运动，现在又有很强的性教育课程，特别是发现艾滋病以后，为了加强性卫生教育，展示了很多可怕的性病照片，结果使性变得更科学化而失去了往日浪漫、神秘的色彩。

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关于性，我觉得中国人与西方人的观念也很不同。中国人好像不享受性生活，不知性是什么。当你不知道一件事是什么，你想要什么，你也就不能从中发现它的真正意义。中国人似乎觉得性只是某件事的伴随物，比如：婚姻。或者有些女孩子会说她当初与男朋友有性关系只是因为他要。她似乎不懂得性是属于她自己的，是快乐而健康的需要。性与爱的结合当然是最好的，但性也可以成为一种独立的享受。婚姻对我来说只是一个宗教问题，你在上帝面前宣誓要与这个女人共度余生，不管是贫穷还是疾病，而婚姻承诺的忠诚实质上只是一种游戏规则，在这个规则中尊重是最重要的。你拒绝婚外情只是因为你尊重你的诺言，尊重对方的情感，这是爱的基础，没有爱就应该分手。

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Turning to the foreign concept of marriage difference, he said: I thought that the Chinese people have a misconception, thinking that Westerners eat breakfast the same sex as casually, in fact not the case. I do think that the Chinese people's concept of sex than foreigners to open up. For example, in a bar, we often see Chinese men, and his lover together. I know that some men养着Xiaolaopo China, which in the West is not acceptable. In my perspective, marriage is loyalty, is a serious contract, both men and women must be fair. If you decide you spent with a woman for the rest, you should not look for other outside the women, otherwise, is unfair. Of course, in some marriages and the lovers are both men and women, who do not interfere with the other life, I think this kind of marriage is unhealthy.

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Perhaps, premarital Westerners tended to be more people living nature. For example, you alt, 17 or 18 years old, or if you have feelings of the requirements, they can be met. With growing pressure on people's lives, people's minds the world has become increasingly lonely, the emotional, instinctive need it more specific. You can not easily find the ideal wife, then how do? But more concerned about their own needs, physical needs, which may sometimes need is a short, one hour, one week or one month. In the West the 1970s sexual liberation movement, and now a strong sex ecation curriculum, particularly after the discovery of AIDS, in order to enhance sexual health ecation, a lot of terrible display of photographs of sexually transmitted diseases, with the result that more of a scientific and lost past romantic, mysterious colors.

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On, I think China and the West are very different concepts. Chinese people do not seem to enjoy sexual life, and I do not know what is. When you do not know what a thing is, what you want, you will not find it from the real meaning. Chinese people seem to think that something only of the accompaniment, such as: marriage. Perhaps some girls would say she had sexual relations with her boyfriend just because he has to. She did not seem to know of are her own, is happy and health needs. The combination of sex and love is the best course, but also can be of an independent enjoyment. To me marriage is a religious issue, you have to swear before God and the woman to ride out the rest of their lives, whether it is poverty or disease, and marriage is essentially pledged loyalty to a rules of the game in this respect for the rules is the most important . You refused to extra-marital affairs just because you respect your promises, respect each other's feelings, which is the basis of love, no love should be separated.

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婚姻家庭观念不同：
中国人有着很强的家庭观念。几千年自给自足的小农经济使人们惯于呆在家中,安于呆在家中,且乐于呆在家中。既然一家人都喜欢守在家里,家庭成员之间便须有一种良好的秩序,来增强家的凝聚力和感召力。这种秩序的核心便是一个“孝”字。“百行孝为先”,摆出孝的显要位置;“子不嫌母丑,狗不嫌家贫”,说明孝的无可选择;“老吾老以及人之老”则是孝的扩展,孝的升华。在一些庙宇(如少林寺)里,专门绘有二十四孝图,记叙古代一些感人的孝行,以弘扬孝德。
相比之下,美国的家庭关系就松驰多了。但他们并不喜欢几世同堂的生活。为了充分享受独立自由,互不拖累,孩子一旦成年,父母与子女双方都愿意分开居住,表现出一种较为淡薄的家庭观念。另一方面,对于婚姻,美国人则特别注重爱情这一前提。

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Different concepts of marriage and family:
Chinese people have strong family values. Self-sufficient small-several thousand people are accustomed to stay home, stay home draw, and happy to stay home. As a people like Shou in the home, family members must have a good order, and to strengthen family cohesion and inspiring. The core of this order is a "filial piety". "100 line for the first filial piety," Xiao assumed a prominent position "of the mother is never too ugly, the dog is never too needy parents," the filial piety have no choice; "Laowulaosijirenlao" is the expansion of filial piety, the sublimation of filial piety. In some temples (such as the Shaolin Temple), a specialized Ershisixiao drawn maps, some describing ancient moving filial piety, so as to promote Xiaode.
By contrast, the United States on family relations more relaxed. But they do not like the world living together for life. In order to fully enjoy the freedom of an independent, non-drag, once alt children, parents and children from both sides are willing to live a relatively weak performance from the concept of the family. On the other hand, marriage, Americans will pay particular attention to love this premise.

㈧ 父母对子女的婚姻应该持怎样的态度

父母对子女的婚姻还是应该进行一定程度的把关，毕竟孩子的人生阅历还不够丰富。有时候可能识别能力尚存在一定程度的不足，为了孩子的幸福父母还是应该适当地去干涉。

可是婚后的生活却是不尽人意，两个人天天吵架。最终弄到了离婚的地步，可怜了只有一岁的孩子。姑姑也因此被气病了，后悔之前的做法，却也于事无补。

作为父母，对孩子的婚姻感情可以上心，但是一定要把握一个适当的度。